12.24.2012

A Little Bit Late

...OKAY, it's very late...

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This year has been an unusual one for me, to say the very least.

I've been on top of the world and then in quick succession, crashed to the bottom of the barrel.
In fact that sneaky barrel slipped out from under me, rolled over loved ones, then swung back over me :-)

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I'd like to share several lessons I've learned both from my blogging friends..
...and by just simply surviving the year.

Yes, I realize its not quite over...but I'm counting on a quiet week next week.

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1- Spellcheck on the iPad can produce some pretty stupid looking sentences.
...still struggling with this beast.
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2- There are so many wonderful blogs to read, if I don't limit myself, I never get out of my PJ's.
...trying.
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3- If my readers respond with comments of sympathy and concern, meditate more, (thank you Deepak) get back to yoga and get a good therapist.
...done.
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4- Be very wary of writing either comments or posts after several cocktails.
...failing...but still trying, that has to count for something!
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5- When my thoughts start presenting as post titles or content, I need to step back.
...getting better at this.
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6- When I have nothing interesting to say...don't dial it in. Forced blog posts are
boring
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...the reason I've been quiet since last month.
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7- Joy comes from within. I choose how to interpret my life's experiences and it is my choice whether to choose a miracle or a misery.
...a work in progress.
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8- Sometimes, no matter how hard I work or how good I am, shit just happens.
...get over it and move on.
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9- It's important to clear the clutter that is clogging your life and energy, including friendships that have become a drain on your spirit.
...done, and pissed a few folks off in the process!
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10- Christmas spent in a tropical location, instead of at home, may not be my thing.
...hard to work up Christmas Spirit.
...and you don't get to decorate your own tree
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I spotted this cutie on a wayward walk down the beach today.

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And before I break rule #6...

I would like to wish you all a very Merry Christmas filled with joy, love and laughter.

Rule #4 has already been compromised.


21 comments:

  1. That tree really made me smile.
    Oh I know you've had 'a bit of a year' but wish you all the best for Christmas and 2013.

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    1. Thanks Tabitha. Thanks also for your kind support!

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  2. I'm ready to put 2012 in the books. May 2013 be better for us all!

    I wouldn't worry too much about Rule #4. ;)

    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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  3. Love love love this post ; apparently cocktails don't impair your judgment !.. I just want to live by all your rules. Lots of love and thanks you for your comments on my blog, they are always so appreciated !xx

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  4. Merry Christmas and I hope 2013 is a happy year for you! The cute tree really made me smile!
    http://missbbobochic.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. It was even cuter in person but I hated to sneak too close for the photo with my IPhone.

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  5. Nice lessons. Merry Christmas to you and yours!

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  6. Love the lessons - life just keeps on sending them to us, no matter our age or experience! May the peace and joy of Christmas be with you throughout 2013. Bisous

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  7. Never give up the cocktails - I'd accomplish nothing without them! Hope you have a great 2013!

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  8. I agree with Sulky and I loved your lessons list.I hope that 2013 will be a great one for you.

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  9. After the rain and wind of the last two days, a tropical Christmas seems an attractive option.....
    I think I may have to make a (tasteful) sign out of Rule #6 and hang it above my desk. Thanks!

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  10. Cheers to a better year in 2013.
    I think it's the bumpy patches that really give us insight and that joy would never be so profound without having experienced the gloom and bleakness of life.
    Happy Holidays Jennifer!

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    1. Agreed. While painful at the time, life looks so much happier when we've weathered the storm.
      Wishing you a very Happy New Year!!

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  11. This is a great post! You've had a few Afgos* in 2012, but 2013 is sure to be better, right? (My wise older neighbour used this term once and I had to ask her what it meant -- apparently, it's a very useful acronym for Another F*&king Growth Opportunity!)
    Sorry I never got 'round to your meme -- it's just been goofy busy around here from mid-November on . . .
    Looking forward to perhaps meeting up with you at some point in 2013. Meanwhile, enjoy the holidays and Happy New Year!

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    1. I love your acronym. I will steal it...thank you.
      Love to see you in the New Year. We've both been a little busy...I'm still finishing a Christmas hat :-(

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  12. I agree with you wholeheartedly on just about everything. Miracle or misery-I like that one. Tropical Christmases are not for me. I've gone back the "morning after" those cocktails to read comments I've left on other people's posts and been downright humiliated, broken prose and everything.

    I hope your New Year is everything you'd like and then some.

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  13. Shoot. I promised myself I would not read any new blogs this year and I would start writing on mine more regularly and then I found yours. Love it! Will be back to catch up soon unless I get sucked into that damn pinterest again.

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  14. Hi Jennifer
    Hi Jennifer,

    Sorry I haven't been to visit you for a while
    but I have no computer

    Wishing you and your family a very very happy new year


    x Fiona

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